The holiday season is one of the most giving and positive times of the year. Many people have the ‘Spirit of Giving’ during this festive time. The students of Somerset Elementary School are no exception. A few of weeks ago the principal, and some of the students stopped by our office to deliver poinsettias. They were going to businesses and residences in the community to spread some positivity with the flowers and a little note. The students of Somerset Elementary; however, have been practicing positivity for a couple years. They piloted the Positivity Project for Northern Local School District last year. The district implemented the project in the other two grade schools this year due to the great results from Somerset Elementary.
The visit from the students inspired me to encourage others to be more positive. Overall, I tend to be a positive person, but positivity does not come naturally for everyone. Some people have to work harder at it, but we all can become more positive with some small changes. To become more positive, try some of these tips from the Mayo Clinic:
Identify areas to change.
Check yourself.
Be open to humor.
Follow a healthy lifestyle.
Surround yourself with positive people.
Practice positive self-talk.
With practice, you may be able to develop a more positive attitude and become less critical of things around you.
There are many health benefits to having a positive outlook/attitude for you. These may include:
- lower blood pressure
- reduced risk for heart disease
- healthier weight
- better blood sugar levels
- lower rates of depression
- lower levels of distress
- greater resistance to the common cold
- better psychological and physical well-being
- better coping skills during stressful times
- longer life span.
One study showed that the most optimistic group of women had a nearly 30% overall reduced mortality compared to the least optimistic group.
Gratitude can also help with developing a more positive outlook/attitude. People who are more grateful tend to have a more positive demeanor. If we can continue the practice of gratitude that many people seem to have during the holiday season all year long, it may help us to become more positive overall. The week after our office received the visit and the flowers from the students, I walked over to the school to deliver a Thank You note to the principal to share with the students. I wanted to make sure that the students understand that their gesture was appreciated and acknowledged. I will be sharing this blog with the principal as well so that he can show the students how they were my inspiration for writing it. The simple gesture of positivity by them, has already spread beyond their little school and town.
When you find yourself struggling to be or to remain positive (as we all do at times), remember Winston Churchill’s famous quote that “a pessimist sees the difficulty in every opportunity; an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty.” Sometimes just re-framing the situation can help us to see things in a more positive light.
Comment on your favorite tips to stay positive.
Written by: Misty Harmon, Family and Consumer Sciences Educator, Ohio State University Extension , Perry County.
Reviewed by: Michelle Treber, Family and Consumer Sciences Educator, Ohio State University Extension, Pickaway County.
Photo Credit: Debbie Goodrich, Office Associate, Perry County OSU Extension.
Sources:
https://posproject.org/
https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/stress-management/in-depth/positive-thinking/art-20043950?pg=2
https://newsinhealth.nih.gov/2015/08/positive-emotions-your-health
https://news.harvard.edu/gazette/story/2016/12/optistic-women-live-longer-are-healthier/
http://www.pursuit-of-happiness.org/science-of-happiness/positive-thinking/
References:
Bryan, Jeff & Erwin, Mike (2017). #OtherPeopleMatter, The Positivity Project.
Mayo Clinic Staff (February 18, 2017). Positive thinking: Stop negative self-talk to reduce stress.
National Institutes of Health (NIH) News in Health (August 2015). Positive Emotions and Your Health Developing a Brighter Outlook.
Feldscher, Karen (December 7, 2016). How power of positive thinking works, Harvard Gazette.
Mindfulness and Positive Thinking (2016). Pursuit of Happiness, Inc.
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