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For those of us who celebrated the holidays, we may have spent time with family and friends focusing on what are the important things in our lives. Thinking of the things you are grateful for has benefits not only to your mental health, but your physical health as well. It is possible to continue those warm, fuzzy feelings into the new year by practicing mindful gratitude.

Gratitude should be on your mind. Feelings of gratitude release both dopamine and serotonin in our brain. This promotes more positive emotions and can improve our mood. What is important about the release of dopamine is that it makes us feel good. In turn, our brain will crave more of it, making thoughts of gratefulness easier to put into practice.

Gratitude is an emotion, and a healthy one when used correctly. Keeping sarcasm out of the equation, the feeling of gratitude can help to replace negative emotions such as resentment or regret. Gratitude lowers your risk of depression and feelings of hopelessness, making it a great tool to combat the winter blues.

Gratitude helps your body. Stress has been identified as a factor in many health issues, and gratitude has been shown to help! A study by UC Davis Health in 2015 found that individuals who practiced gratitude had:

  • 16% lower diastolic bp and 10% systolic bp.
  • 23% lower levels of stress hormones
  • 25% lower levels of dietary fat
  • 20% less fatigue in heart failure patients
  • 9-13% lower levels of Hemoglobin A1c
  • 10% improvement in sleep quality

Gratitude can be simple. You may not have won the lottery today, but you may have been fortunate enough to have watched a hummingbird outside your window. Or maybe you were able to leave for work on time and beat all the traffic? The more you practice paying attention to the positive things in your life, the easier it will become.

How can you get into the habit of being grateful? Try to incorporate one or more of these techniques into your day for at least 15 minuets.

Person writing in a journal.
  • Write in a gratitude journal either what you are excited for in the morning, or grateful for happening in the evening. This helps us to focus on what’s important.
  • Give sincere complements to others around you. This not only helps you, but can brighten someone else’s day
  • Be grateful during an activity. Focus on the enjoyment you get from participating. If you are doing something outside, this is a great way to enjoy nature.
  • Create a Grateful Board. Similar to a vision board, this activity has you thinking about the great things that already exist in your life and what you are excited for in your future.
  • Prayer and meditation are another way to quite your mind and reflect.
  • Pay it forward by volunteering for causes that matter to you.
  •  Write thank-you cards or thinking-of-you cards. What is great about this practice is that you don’t have to send them if you don’t want to, but focusing on that person in your life will help you feel better about that relationship.

Using gratitude, you can choose to be happy.  Find what technique would work best for you, and plan how you can incorporate it into your schedule.

Author: Casey Bishop, Family and Consumer Sciences Educator, MACP, OSU Extension Paulding County

Reviewer : Susan Zies, Assistant Professor, Family and Consumer Sciences Educator, Wood County

Resources:

Ryan, R., Patel, S. (May, 2018). Gratitude strategies to feel better fast. Emotional Fitness: Timps and Skills for Mental Health. https://u.osu.edu/emotionalfitness/2018/05/31/gratitude-exercises-to-feel-better-fast/

Singh, Maanvi. (December, 2018). If You Feel Thankful, Write It Down. It’s Good For Your Health. NPR, Shots. https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2018/12/24/678232331/if-you-feel-thankful-write-it-down-its-good-for-your-health

UC Davis Medical Center. (November, 2015). Gratitude is good medicine. UC Davis Medical Center; Medical Center. https://health.ucdavis.edu/medicalcenter/features/2015-2016/11/20151125_gratitude.html

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This is a perfect time of year to teach our children aboutHappy Thanksgiving word cloud being thankful.  The Thanksgiving holiday has many opportunities to create new family traditions that will bring the real meaning of thankfulness and gratitude to a personal level for our children.  Even is the mist of extremely challenging circumstances, we can find something to be thankful for.  In addition to helping us cope with challenges, this kind of grateful attitude can be contagious and is a wonderful life lesson to share with our children.  Learning to be truly grateful can change your life. The Greater Good Science Center at University of California-Berkeley notes three key reasons to teach children to be grateful.

  • Grateful kids are more kind
  • Grateful teens are happier and get better grades
  • Grateful kids become stewards of the environment

Teaching children to be thankful helps them resist their natural urge to be self-centered and self-absorbed.  Thankfulness is an important character trait that allows young people to develop meaningful relationships with others, and is directly related to happiness.  Understanding the good things in our lives will go a long way during adversity.

Kids are never too young to start learning how to show thanks for the good things in their lives.  Although Thanksgiving, by its name alone, makes us think about giving thanks, we should teach our children by example, that being thankful and telling others how much they are appreciated should happen every day. Parents and caregivers are the main ingredient in teaching young children no matter how young or old about being grateful.  We teach with our actions more than words.  So, it will take some thoughtful planning to find time around our busy work schedules but many things can be incorporated in our day-to-day lives with very little effort.

Here are some ideas to try with your family:

A Thanksgiving Tree:  Get each child to trace their hand on a piece of paper.  Have each child write various things they are thankful for on the fingers.

The Thankful Paper Chain:  Cut strips of paper.  On each strip have the child write about something they are thankful for, such as “Grandma plays games with me” or “I have a nice teacher.”  Connect them into loops.  It would be fun to add to the chain as other holidays approach.

Giving Thanks Placemats:  The goal of this craft is to create a collage filled with pictures of all the things your children are grateful for.  Using magazine pictures or pictures from the computer, glue them on a placemat size piece of paper.  Older children could write captions.  You can even laminate it to use again and again.

A Thank You Note Project:  Teach your children to write thank you notes for presents they receive or kindnesses that are shown to them.

Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life.  It turns what we have into enough, and more.  It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity.  It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend.  Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today and creates a vision for tomorrow.

Resource:

Rothenberg, W. A., Hussong, A. M., Langley, H. A., Egerton, G. A., Halberstadt, A. G., Coffman, J. L., Mokrova, I., & Costanzo, P. R., Grateful parents raising grateful children: Niche selection and the socialization of child gratitude, Applied Developmental Science Vol. 21, Iss. 2, 2017

Written by: Kathy Green, Family & Consumer Sciences Educator, Ohio State University Extension, Clark County, green.1405@osu.edu

Reviewed by: Janet Wasko Myers, Program Assistant, Horticulture, Ohio State University Extension, Clark County, myers.31@osu.edu

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